Swinger Personals Ads

Choosing the photos to list in your swingers advert will be just as important as what you write in the advert. While appearance isn’t everything, adverts without photos don’t get nearly the response that those with photos do. It’s also the first thing people notice and determine whether or not they will contact you. Even if you aren’t photogenic there are some neat ways to get good photos to list on your advert.

Headshots

The headshot should be included in all adverts. If you don’t like any of your current headshots, take some new ones. If you angle the camera above your head and point it down on your face at an angle you can hide a lot of flaws like a chubby chin. You don’t need to pay a lot of money for these shots either, using something as simple as a camera phone will do the trick.

Full Body Shots

You don’t need to pose nude to get a good full body shot. Many people enjoy taking photos outdoors, or during an activity they enjoy. These shots also don’t need to be taken up close if you aren’t comfortable with that. Have a friend with a camera snap some shots next time you are at a picnic, playing soccer, or whatever you enjoy doing outdoors. The natural light will make you look much better.

Naughty Shots

If you are advertising in a swingers advert, nude, semi-nude, and sexual shots are usually acceptable. This doesn’t mean you have to go this far. If you aren’t comfortable you can take photos of your feet in a pair of sexy shoes, a shot of your chest showing a little cleavage, etc. If you are comfortable with more, then go for it! You can always set these photos to private and only share them when you are ready.

If you want your advert to get noticed you need to stand out. Instead of listing the same stuff that everyone does, you need to make your advert sound interesting if you want to stand out from the crowd. Here are a few tips that will help you become more interesting on paper and get you the attention you want.

Don’t Make a List

Yes, you are probably looking for someone that meets certain criteria, and there is nothing wrong with that. However, if you create a list of things you are looking for you end up coming across as a picky jerk. You can talk about the things that are important without listing them. For instance, if you are looking for someone who is athletic, you can say something about how important fitness is to you and you are looking for someone who shares this sentiment. You can do the same about physical attributes you are looking for.

Don’t Use Clichés

No one wants to read a profile advert that says the same things that all the others say. Don’t say you are interested in romantic walks on the beach and love music. Everyone likes this. Instead, if you want to grab someone’s attention, talk about what you like about a specific genre of music, or why you like some of the activities you are in to. Do you like rock climbing for the danger aspect, or for the feeling of being close with nature? Mention these things. It will bring you more attention and get you more serious responses.

A swinger’s advert is going to be a little different than a standard personal advert. Your appearance will be important, but your experience and choice of swinging activities take precedence. With this is mind, there are things that should be put in the advert, and things that should be emphasized. Here’s a simple guide to creating an advert that describes you.

Physical Appearance

While this isn’t usually the most important aspect of describing yourself in a swingers advert, it should be at least highlighted. Your height, eye color, hair color, and your overall build should be included. You don’t need to include your actual weight, but be honest about the build. If you have a few extra pounds don’t list yourself as athletic. Again, it’s important to remember that while appearance is important, what you are willing to do is far more important in the swinging community.

Activities

You don’t need to go in to graphic detail in this, but you should describe the types of activities you are interested in. If you are open to soft, full, open swing, etc., list this. If you have certain fetishes that interest you it should also be listed. This is going to help you find others who are interested in the same activities. There is no point in listing an advert if you are looking for someone open to cuckolding and never mention this. The swinging community is diverse, and many people are in to many different facets of swinging. You can also include activities that you are open to even if you haven’t tried them yet.